Category Archives: Life

A resilient heart

  Broken hearts mend, but they never quite resemble what existed before.  When you sweep up the shattered pieces, even the best adhesive can’t produce an exact replica, for some shards are lost permanently and don’t make it into the re-built heart.  It is altered forever. It is still a beautiful heart, though–worthy of the respect, …

Continue reading

Watch your step!

Carelessness comes in all shapes and sizes.  Sometimes it is a true lack of feelings for others, and sometimes it is mere laziness or selfishness.  Sometimes it is an outright act, and sometimes it is an act of omission. You never know when the carelessness of another will cause you to slip and fall–usually figuratively. …

Continue reading

Fish out of water

  It was likely my obsession with food (and my strong opinions about it) that led to me dining at one of the LAST places anyone who knows me would ever picture me going to willingly. Am I prissy? Yes. Am I prim and proper? Yes. Am I uptight? Oh, yes. So, how is it …

Continue reading

Sharing the path

I can’t say for certain whose gait was more labored and stiff-legged–the elderly man or the graying black terrier he walked on a leash. I greeted them this morning with a nod, a smile, and a hello when we passed, walking in opposite directions on the circular path around a large pond. When I neared …

Continue reading

Crushed

One small flower, pressed in the pages of a large old book, falls out gently into my lap. Crushed flat by time and the weight of the pages enfolding her, she’s now merely a remnant of the life and beauty she once held. Color faded, brittle and crumbling–yet someone once thought enough of her to …

Continue reading

Most Agreeable

Day camp. Adler Park. Summer of 1973. I can’t tell you if it lasted two weeks, four weeks, or six weeks. I can tell you it felt like years and taught me a painful truth about my value in the hierarchy of my peers; a truth that has been hard to shake. I was ten …

Continue reading

Dust

Greeted, needed, he moves around the room, Each requires a piece, just a very small piece, As they chip away the lining of his enormous heart, Not one sees the resulting holes.   Please help, do this, be here, don’t leave, His gift becomes his curse, How can they not see the toll it takes? …

Continue reading

The ripple effect

Though my shoe barely made contact with it, down rolled the stone from the walking path into the pond this morning. I never even saw the stone, just felt my shoe brush against it while in mid stride. Down to the water’s edge it travelled and, upon entering the pond, made its presence known by …

Continue reading

In the presence of greatness

We each choose what and who we hold in esteem, that which we deem to be greatness. I was blessed yesterday to be in the presence of what I consider just that: I was privileged to attend a celebration for a 40th wedding anniversary. Given my age and my unmarried status, it is a milestone …

Continue reading

If I let you in

If I let you in, will you stay to hear what I have to say? Will you listen? Really listen? Or will you politely nod and smile, silently considering somewhere else you’d rather be? If I let you in, will you open your soul to me, trusting me to treat your vulnerability with honor and …

Continue reading